There are two ways of looking at life.
One friend of mine, when asked how things are going, will almost certainly reply "I tell you, things are rough. They're just rough." I find this reply a bit odd since he is prosperous, gainfully employed, and pulling down a six figure income. For this friend, things are not rough, and yet he lives as if they are.
Other friends who live in circumstances where things are rough live as though they are not.
One friend, who has much, lives in constant scarcity and the other, who has little, lives in abundance. The difference is their attitude.
Scarcity says "There is only so much. I must hold on to what I have and use it sparingly lest I run out"
Abundance says "There is enough and to share. I will use it with joy and share it with gladness."
Scarcity says "When it's gone, it's gone and will never be replaced."
Abundance says "I got it or earned it once. I can do it again."
Scarcity says "I will keep it safe in my closet."
Abundance says "I will use it. I will enjoy it. I will share it so that others may enjoy it too."
Scarcity says "It is valuable because I can get something for it."
Abundance says "It is valuable because I use it."
Scarcity says "I will keep it because I might need it someday."
Abundance says "I'm not using it. You are welcome to it."
People tend to associate with others of like attitude.
If I would prefer to be around those who reflect an attitude of abundance, maybe I need to start by adjusting my attitude.